Because your Creator wants you to do so

Assalamulaikum and hi all,

Fuhhhh fuhh
Konon-konon tiup habuk.
Been awhile. I miss blogging. Writing and spilling my thoughts aside from using my monotonous vocal and writing and getting 'likes'.

Almost everyday day, i walk from my office to klcc to meet my husband (to go back home together), i can see types of people. Physically, in terms on how they dress, they cover themselves.

Women, ladies, girls..are most attraction to my eyes. Yeah i still have some 'boyish' in me-suke tengok pompuan.hahah.

So one day, while watching, it came across in my mind, what if my daughter refuse to wear, dress like how i want her to do? - Putting hijab, covering her aurah.

I know there are many debates- i call it complaints-from girls (muslim) who refuse to wear hijab. They say: it is just not the time yet, dont judge them by apprearance, indeed they have good heart and in fact very kind too ( i admit this one, and met some), they havent receive 'hidayah' or tak datang seru lagi..and highlighting the facts that 'tiada paksaan dalam islam'..bla3.

I wish i am not making their points useless..i guess if i were them, i would say the same..perhaps.

So back to my thought, what if my daughter say so? How am i gona reply? The fact that i have tried giving good example and good teaching ( insyaAllah)..

Then a voice whispered to me..which i guess thats how i would reply:
"if you do not want to putting hijab and cover your aurat for me, its fine. It is not me who wants it, but your Creator wants you to do so, the One who gives you life."

I always pray my girlfriends and sisters will one day see, understand and obey the responsibility to cover the aurah. Ameen..

Getting married!

Assalamualaikum..

Alhamdulillah..i am getting married in a month! Mixed feeling. Excited to get married to a man i love most, afraid and curious of life we both going to have soon, sad to have the tear moment during the akad. There will be a drama..i promise. Haha

Our relationship, alhamdulillah keep stronger day by day. We've gone thru ups and downs together as i take it as pretests for both of us.

Neither both of us 100%ly trust each other that we can promised to make each other happy. But, alhamdulillah, we have strong believe that this is fate and all is decided by Allah. For whatever the future may hold, we always want to keep each other close and  be a stronger muslim.

I also believe how we just follow the flow, and learnt, and keep moving from each mistakes we done in past tie us together.

WaAllahualam..may Allah bless this relationship.

Amiinn..

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My dearest azizul,

InsyaAllah, i love you today, tomorrow and forever. May Allah, families and friends bless our relationship. And may we survive together to help each other for our utmost mission, jannah!

Happy birthday in advance,

Love!

Perihal boikot

Salam..sahabat2 yang baik dan berhati mulia..

Nasihatilah daku jika tersalah bicara..

Alkisah perihal boikot barangan israel. Entahlah..pada saya kebanyakan daripada kita (harap2 kamu tidak tergolong) masih ambil light2 saja tentang tanggungjawab memboikot. Macam itu bukan perkara yang wajib dibuat, bukan satu jalan jihad. Sebab? Tak boleh nk hidup tanpa barangan tersebut. Tak biasa dgn product lain.
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Alasan apa tu?

Seorang kenalan saya, yg beberapa kali juga sy nasihatlan dan mengajak utk sama2 memboikot barangan israel. Jika xboleh buat byk,sikit pun jadilah kan? Tp sy tidak nampak kesan ajakan saya itu terhadap beliau. Saya dan rakan yg lain cuba kaitkan dgn tanggungjawab kita sbgai org Islam utk memboikot israel, namun, tidak ada kesan padanya.

Tp, baru2 ini sy terlihat pesanan rakan bukan muslim beliau kepada rakan2nya supaya tidak lg membeli satu product ni, sebab? Isu kesihatan. Dan dia agree yg dia x patut dh beli product tu.

Aduh..apa dah jadi ni. Sensitiviti mana yg lebih diutamakan?

To me, keadaan sekeliling yg sgt tak endah, tak kisah, tak peduli, dan tak ambil berat tabggungjawab diri sndiri utk agama mmbuahkan hasil seperti ini.

Moga Allah mudahkan pertuturan kami dan mmberi nasihat dan membuka hati kami utk belajar dan menerima nasihat..
WaAllahualam..

suami aku ustaz

salam..

drama 1:

isteri: abang, apa hukumnya kalau saya berzikir semasa saya haid?
suami: tak surelah. try awak google.
isteri: ha yelah. nanti saya google.

p/s: nama suami: Ustaz google.


drama 2:

isteri: abang, apa hukumnya kalau saya berzikir semasa saya haid?
suami: boleh..tiada larangan yang disebut bagi wanita untuk berzikir semasa sedang haid. malah ini memberi ruang bagi mereka untuk beribadat. berdoalah, berzikirlah, bertasbih, bertahmid  dan berselawat. insyaAllah dapat melindungi diri daripada kemungkaran dan gangguan syaitan.
isteri: fuyoo ustaz abang!


p/s: nama suami: Ustaz Abang Tersayang

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wait. mungkin ada yang akan tersinggung atau menganggap kesempurnaan je yang ain ni fikir.
come on..be realistic.

nama pun drama. dramatic lah lebih. kan?
secara real nya, mungkin boleh jadi begini:

isteri: abang, apa hukumnya kalau saya berzikir semasa saya haid?
suami: abang mcm pernah tahu. tapi tak berapa pasti.. xpe nanti abang study sket pastu bagitahu ye?

few minutes/ hours after...

suami: okeh dah dapat! sebenarnya boleh..tiada larangan yang disebut bagi wanita untuk berzikir semasa sedang haid. malah ini memberi ruang bagi mereka untuk beribadat. berdoalah, berzikirlah, bertasbih, bertahmid  dan berselawat. insyaAllah dapat melindungi diri daripada kemungkaran dan gangguan syaitan.
*lepas tu boleh la tunjuk power lebih sikit dengan baca hadis2 daripada pembacaan anda tu.
isteri: fuyoo Ustaz Abang Tersayang~!

moralnya:

keyakinan rumahtangga letaknya pada pasangan masing2. saling kebergantungan. si suami harus memainkan watak paling utama..sebagai ketua keluarga. eh silap. bukan harus. dah tahap wajib dah pun. syurga isteri bergantung pada suami. suami nak pastikan isteri masuk syurga, timba lah ilmu banyak2..supaya dapat mendidik isteri.

usah biarkan hidup anda diselubungi Google...

*letih melayan issue Listen.Listen -__-"

respect others privacy!

salam,

hari ni mc. diarrhea. hey apa diarrhea kena duduk melepek je ke kt dalam toilet. letih tahu?
balasan kecil dari Allah untuk dosa-dosa aku. banyak lagi nak kena lunas ni ya Allah..Engkau hukumlah daku dengan hukuman yang aku termampu..

okay. berbalik pada respect.

i am not sure kalau orang lain. but to me, kalau orang tu dah cuti, apatah lagi kalau cuti sakit, mmg rasa sgt berat nak ganggu dia. kalau text tny khabar tu kira okaylah. ini text, malah call untuk tny pasal kerja!

come on..tak rasa rimas ke orang kacau privacy? put yourselves in one's shoe la. simple.

it happened to me few times. i know maybe the boss insist those people to call and text to ask something, but work on it first until u think you really have to spoil someone's rest time.been there..the bosses asked me to asked from someone..to know where did she located on file in the server. gila ke hapa? logik la..orang tgh berehat kt rumah. maternity leave plak tuh..nak ingat apa pasal kerja? urat urat dah putus masa nak beranak. memang x ingin la ingat pasal kerja. the colleagues insist me to call her. but i didnt. i try to look for it myself.
try be as logic as possible to get clue on the location of the file. and i got it! xperlu nak ganggu privacy orang lain. apa yang dikejar..kita pun bekerja utk manusia..to please human being? blerggghh

ingat,
respect others' privacy..as how you dont want others to disturb you.

wassalam..